Sorry to here you were blackmailed, lifeguard85 .
You have here all you need to do in such situation:
viewtopic.php?f=20&t=580.
Do not send money to the scammer, he will be back, asking for more.
Unfriend and block the in FB, if you have him as friend there, change your FB username and picture. Increase your privacy settings in FB. Block him in Skype. Put Google Alerts on your name, and report any videos to the host of the website to close them. Do not answer any unknown emails, delete them without opening them, and do not accept any new friend on skype or FB.
If you have one link to "her" Facebook profile, can you, please, post it here?
Help yourself by helping others - report your scammer here.Google can be your best friend;use it if you have doubts about someone met online. If someone met online only asks for money, no matter what reason, it´s 100% scam.
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