Singleparents.com or Match.com . Since I lived in Canada I only thought of just chatting with ppl who lived in my home town. Reasonable enough right? So I started making my profile and I got a few contacts who left me messages .
(Match.Com) I would only answer to the ones I thought were interesting. Then I get this one message and then checked there profile. Male Widow age 48. Daughter age 14. His profile stated about his whole family which sounded more sad than what he looking for. His picture profile was handsome. But he lived in the states .UK so he tells me. It all started out as friendly, them he started giving me love poems. Wanting to chat with me on line or on messenger. I started to have some feelings for him. But to me it all seemed to be too soon to really know for sure. He is telling me he is falling in love with me. We started chatting almost every day ( Fall of 2010) He told me about his job in what he does, how he has to travel at times. He was living in London England and was his widow wife was Canadian. One other thing we had in common was he was a Single parent . So I thought. I was going through some things in my life that I really didn't need any confusion or unhappiness. I am a very positive person and in the reality of things face to face, you know how to pick out a scammer . Online it is a very different story , and I mean story. A story what is being told to you, that you only want to hear. Who to believe , What to believe. A very sad game they like to play. And once they get away with it the first time they keep trying for more. New names are made, peoples identity, pictures, profiles. Anything that sounds good to you is there way to lure you in with there so called love and kindness. Now for the problems they may have. Here is one of them...Oh I have to fly out to Malaysia from London I will call when I land. Two days go by he tells me that he doesn't have enough money to pay the tax for his job to bring back the products. (Hinting ) Well I don't have that kind of money so no. ok he said then again asks me later would you be able to try. A day later he finds away to get the tax. Through out all this, he tells me also when the job is done. He supposed to have half million coming to him from doing this job. He even shows me his business bank account and gives me the number so I would believe him. But still he now asks me and tells me he needs help because they have money on hold at a business account bank in the UK. For the deal to go through he needs to get this money out . He tells me If I could wire the money to him , he would get it all back to me after the deal was done in
Malaysia. Because he would get paid. He said he wanted to start off a new life here in Canada and wanted to be with me and my child. There is so much more that was said . Lets say this yes some money went out to this scam. And some what screwed me over financially . But I truly didn't let it get me down. At first I was very angry
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