Sorry to hear you fell in this trap, Vanion.
You have here the most important things to do in this case:
viewtopic.php?f=20&t=580Delete/block the scammer on every place used online to communicate with him, Facebook also. Change your username on Facebook - it will change your URL link and the scammer will not be able to find you again using the old link, and replace your profile picture if is one with your face in. Change your privacy settings allowing just your friends to see you profile. Set a Google Alert with your name in. google will let you know if something using your name is posted online and you can report the video to the host, asking to be deleted.
About:
I wish I could figure out how to find the youtube post they said they made
Have you tried to search your own name in Google? Maybe in this way you will find the video and you will be able to report it.
About the scammer:
On Facebook,
Saida Janica Miller aka saida.miller.9
Worked at McDonald's (Cashier)
Studied at California State University, Los Angeles
Lives in Los Angeles, California
From Los Angeles, California
Active since February 19, 2013.
im just who i am!!!
how can i fall inlove with you ♥
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