Try reading Page 13 of the Closure thread. About half-way down where Slaphappy talks about how the minds of Scammers work. It might help you understand that they have no real interest in you, only the money. If there's no money to be had from you and no way to contact you to make their threats then they normally go away quickly.
http://www.scamsurvivors.com/forum/view ... &start=120Also, Podcast #11 might help you cope and understand that life will go on eventually.
http://www.scamsurvivors.com/forum/view ... 0&start=30