by rimrocka2007 » Fri Sep 28, 2012 12:01 am
I have also been in your same position, with a girlfriend and all. I somehow found it in myself to tell my girlfriend the truth. Although this may hurt her deeply, it is better than her finding out by surprise. I felt that sharing my story helped some of the pain. My girlfriend was, indeed, upset and disappointed, but what you need to understand is that you are a victim. You're feelings are normal, and experienced by everyone put in this awful situation. I have told close friends as well, who were all supportive. We all made a dumb mistake, that will SURELY, never happen again. Learn from it and grow as a person. I put away my computer for at least a week. Cut off all contact. If they can't reach you, their threats cant be seen; therefore, their motive is moot. Try and get back to normal life. It will all pass with time.