Concerned2012 wrote:My concern is that the video will be released if I reveal names.
It won't. That is the only thing the scammer has on you. It's his golden goose, so to speak. If he does that, it will be the end for him - there will be nothing more he can use to blackmail you. He's after money, that's why he's doing this. He'll gain nothing from exposing you, on the contrary, it would be counter productive to him. Also, it is not likely that he will find this forum, so please, don't hesitate to post as many details about this scammer as you have.
Concerned2012 wrote:I know I am thinking irrationally but I have no experience in this.
That's exactly why you need to listen to us. We are all very experienced in dealing with scammers - some of us communicate with them on a daily basis, myself included. We know how they think and how they operate. We are putting a lot of effort in fighting them, but without as many details as possible that can help put up warning signs about this one, it's uphill for us. So we really need you to help us as much as you can, and so does other potential victims.