by daz3162010 » Tue Jul 02, 2013 2:51 pm
Hi Guys
Completely new to this, and I just need anyone to give me some advice. Here is my story:
I was in contact with a "girl" on Skype, and unfortunately one thing led to another, and I ended up getting a long message, saying they have posted a video of what I had done on a website. They sent me the link, as well as a link to all of my email contacts, as well as my partner's addresses, Mine and her CV's and work email details etc. They said they wanted an amazon gift card, or they would email the link to everybody. They had evidently gotten into my pc, as they asked my email address and said they would send me something. They also told me the information was so easy to get hold of, and they had posted it all online using a pasting website.
I panicked, and told them I didn't have any money, and the threats got worse, with more abuse each time. They kept saying they were about to send the information, then holding off. Then when I went quiet they told me again they were about to, or that they had just sent it, taunting me each time.
Then I found this site later on in the day.
I have since deactivated the Skype account, changed my Facebook username, and deleted the hotmail account that all the contacts were associated with. I have also reported the video as abusive on the site, as well as telling the pasting site that my information needs to be taken down, as I didn't post it.
I have since received another email to another address saying I have 24 hours in which to pay, as they somehow saw my bank account details and found out my balance when I logged in. I have blocked this email address and I am not giving into their demands.
I think the worse thing about this, apart from the obvious feeling of dread and despair, is the invasion of privacy. As I have seen written on here many times, everybody makes mistakes, and this was mine. Worst case scenario is that this video will be posted out to people I know, including family and friends, or even posted to people.
I just needed to know I wasn't alone in this, and wanted to know if there was any advice on coping with this, or if anybody has had the same sequence of events happen to them?
Thanks Everyone
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firefly on Tue Jul 02, 2013 3:18 pm, edited 1 time in total.
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