by Ruffled Feathers » Sat Feb 21, 2015 8:07 am
Hello, trialanderror
I just read your message of how it feels to be scammed and the thoughts and feelings you are going through, this is more than normal, you need now to get rest, eat right and hopefully get some sleep.
My scam was over 4 years ago,, I have regained my life in a much more positive manner, and that will happen with you also as time goes on, you must remember, you were vulnerable to this ugly person, but also, please remember we are all human and make mistakes and we were taught to trust people, never in a million years being taught that someone would hurt us, emotionally and monetarily. but trust me you do survive as a much better person, and one who is much wiser to the world around them.
Just to tell you, the night I found out I had been scammed, I thought my world ended, but trusting a few friends I found out, yes I was a jerk, but I still had a life and friends, and most importantly, the people on this site are here to push, pull and drag you back into a real world, one which you deserve to be in. Mine was a romance scam, one of the worst to recover from, because you believe the romantic side, not the money that is running out of your bank account.
My new life is full, the scam is behind me, and I have a wonderful person in my life once again. And your life will also return to normal, just let it happen.
All the people on this site are here for you, let them help you break through and regain your posture, stand up straight, eat right and enjoy your life. the scammer is a piece of crap and does not belong in your life any longer.
I hope I did not talk too much about myself, but I wanted you to know, in no uncertain terms you will get your life back, not quite the same, but much better, and you will recover and be a stand-up strong person, who hopefully can help someone else going through a hard time.
RF
A scammer is only as good as the fear he creates.