Do you have his okcupid profile link for us to look at? How about his email address? Full name used? Phone number?
His skype profile name? The pictures sent to you? Please give us more of his details.
Still his Skype as he said before still has layered security. He said it needs my IP Add so his IT can fix it so we can see each other.
he said he would like to give a gift to my nephew
Both of these things scream out "I am a scammer." As Big Al has said, drop him now, and do not tell him you know he is a scammer.
You were in touch with a scammer back in August, and if you did not change ALL of your own details, email account, phone number, all social site profiles online, it is highly likely that it is the same scammer, using a different name and trying to scam you again.
But we do need his details to help save others, so please post them.