The way we can often tell what kind of scam the profile on a dating site is involves the wording.  If we ever see “I have something important to tell you” then we know it’s going to be a refugee scammer whose story involves a murdered father, a refugee camp, a kindly priest and a hidden fortune they need your help with to get out of the country.  Never once seen a case where they say that and it doesn’t end as a “refugee”.