I am wondering if an online scammers would even wait that long to act?
That depends on what kind of scammer scammed him, and what actions he took after the scam to protect himself from them finding him to continue to harrass him.
Scams for control, i.e. "catfishing" by friends or others doing it for "kicks" or e-whoring script kiddies will stick around and chase if the victim allows it.
Blackmail scammers doing it for money do not chase if the victim disappears online.
The videos in control cases may be saved, but not passed around very freely, rather kept for personal "collections." or shown to their e-whoring pals for "bragging rights."
Videos in scams for money are not kept very long at all, and not passed to others in the vast majority of cases.
As for "cheating on you," you'll have to decide if his actions with MEN behind the camera, abusing stolen video footage of innocent cam girls or others is "Cheating." We make no judgment there.
Read what we have here on the forum about the scam so you understand fully how some men (and women too) get caught in this type of scam. Here are some links to read. Listen to two men talk about the scam on our podcasts as well. It can be an embarrassing topic to discuss with wives, GFs, and family. Some have trouble talking about it, some never will, some will seek support from them as did the young guy in podcast 11.
You both may want to consider completing all the steps in the first topic below to protect yourselves and your friends from the scammer and changing all of your online profiles.
http://blackmailscams.comOnline blackmail. Read this first. http://www.scamsurvivors.com/forum/view ... f=20&t=580The Dump - "Whatif?" Questions Have Answers Here
http://www.scamsurvivors.com/forum/view ... 20&t=35899THE MOST COMMONLY ASKED QUESTIONS IN OUR LIVE HELP ROOM, AND THEIR ANSWERS.
http://www.scamsurvivors.com/blog/the-m ... r-answers/Who´s behind the stolen pictures used for scams?
viewtopic.php?f=21&t=1861How Blackmail Scammers Think and Operate The Scam http://www.scamsurvivors.com/forum/view ... 110#p52656Interview with a blackmail survivor, a member of our website: http://scamsurvivors.com/podcasts/ Click Playlist button in the upper left of the player. Scroll to podcast #11.
Interview with New Light, a blackmail survivor: http://scamsurvivors.com/podcasts/ Click Playlist button in the upper left of the player. Scroll to podcast #16.
recovery and reassurance http://www.scamsurvivors.com/forum/view ... f=3&t=4509