Let's clarify some things here.
A scam is not only about money. It can be about everything else - control, virtual sex, a green card. Are a lot of cases when scams starting online are ending in the real life and the effects are devastating.
Why would I trust you over somebody I've known for two years that have never asked me for a dime.
We do not ask you to trust us. All we ask you is to use your brain. When someone is bullsh1tting you it is fair to let you know that someone is doing it. If you want to believe it or not that's up to you.
I could never be a victim you're only a victim if you let yourself be a victim!
You can be a victim without even realizing you are one... until the moment when you can not avoid anymore admitting you are a victim. Usually when that happens it is already too late.
You believe him - fair enough. We are telling you he is a liar. You will be the one to decide who is right and who is not in this case. I really hope, for your own good, that you will manage to get out of the Rabbit Hole without being damaged.